well first of all you need to drink AT LEAST 2 ltrs of water... and then you should go to the nutriologist and explain that you need to loose as much as possiblee... then you should work out.. run or walk for at least half an hour EVERYDAY i'm sure that is going to help :)

I know what your going thru my whole life revolves arund my diet and excercise but iam doing it the healty way and you should to!! You shouldnt starve yourself its not good for u !!

Wish u the best of luck YOU CAN DO IT!!

Don't worry, I am in the exact same situation!

it sucks!

first research all the  foods that are fat burners. write in food journal on MDD

DRINK LOTS OF WATER

Give up fatty sugary foods

don't eat after 8:00 pm

before bed every night put one teaspoon of vinegar and 1 t of honey with hot water and it will burn fat--will have with weight.

WALKWALKWALKWALKWALKWALKWALK!

Starting Sept 1 I AM GOING on A HEALTH QUEST to lose weight.........join me---you can't stop eating---you will get fatter. We start off with 10, and then keep going. we have to wrte everyhing we ate for the day, and be trufully a-nne

[ennaidlk]

Hey thanks for the comment.

Yeah i am dealing with exactly the same situation. I am 16 and i have never had a bf or being kissed or anything. this year this boy kept talking to me and my friend (who is his best friend) said to me she thought he liked me which i think he did actually. but this guy is the creepiest slimiest guy you have ever know in your life and NO WAY was i going to do anything with him. NO WAY! so i kinda made it clear to him i want interested before he even said anything and he never ended up asking me out. he goes out with one of my best friends now but he still trys in on with me. hes such a creep!! i cant believe the one guy to ever fancy me is him!! ugh!!

i completly know what you mean about wanting someone to love you who isnt related or has pity on you. i always think that.

i suppose we just got to be optimistic about it and try and boost our confidence and talk to guys.

btw is that you in the picture?? cos if so youare really pretty!!

wb

xx

" feel so alone. I don't want to say that I hate life but right now, I just don't understand why I can't get a boyfriend.  I know that it isn't IMPORTANT but I think that it is important to feel loved. Though I know that my family loves  me, I feel a need for a bigger love. A love that I know exists because they actually truly love me. Not because they  are related me or have pity on me."

DITTO...

want to talk about it??

wb

xx

[scaryfairy]

i think you will have a great life and yes you just need to relax.

i will pray for you.

i hope you get your goal.
i hope you have fun at florida.i wish i could go there.your not Ugly.
good luck on the exams.i study really hard soooo i do good in school.
my 1st bf was in 6th grade.
i have 1 more week of school next week.
im am soooooo happy for you that you hade been so much happier than you ever were before.

if someone dismisses you for your looks... they don't deserve you. and for the record, i think you're pretty. from what i can see.

i love theatre... the best friends i ever made i made through acting. it's empowering to be on stage.

"I realize that hating myself really doesn't do anything. It just makes me look like an idiot and it keeps me from having fun. I realize that living life to the fullest is really important and if you just sit in the corner crying about yourself, what have you done? What have you accomplished? I think that I am on the verge of a breakthrough that will change my life."

That made me smile.

I see way too many people on here writing about eating disorders... if you want to lose weight, go for it! but don't let it take over your life. Not that i think that would happen, you seem smarter than that.

I didn't gt my first kiss until i was 19y/o. The guy and I only lasted for 2months... then i didn't date for another 2 years.... (no one).... then i dated a guy for 2 weeks (didn't work out) then i didn't date until 1 year later. Dated another guy for 2 weeks.... then another for 3 weeks, then another about 2 weeks... the reason of why so short time is that thyey ended up being liers.... the three last ones were.... and i got hurt.... mostly with the last one beacuse the first few times we went out he had out the world to my feet and i thought that he was it..... i was so NAIVE..... now i am 24 years old and i have dated Israel for almost 6 months..... and he has been wonderful to me and I am SCARE.....

so there is nothing wrong with you... everything will come at the right time don't worry..... just live, get healthy but do it for you not for what others think. and as for that max guy... just approach him, with something like (aren't you in my class" if he is not interested it's ok. It is better to know now if he is interested or not before you strt liking him more.....

you have really pretty eyes. and your epiphany of getting to know guys will be used by me. good luck.

<3adri

good luck

[sweetliljesusfan1985]

everyones beautiful in there own way i think im ugly and its distroying me enjoy life and dont worry about things like that

Alice.x

glas1221.x

you r not ugly

your are a very,very pretty girl.y u think your so ugly.your a beautiful girl,like me.

[hlcsurveys]

You know Alli, you remind me a lot of myself when I was in high school. I felt like a loser, a loner.  I was overweight and not pretty, and that's all people saw.  Inside I was intelligent, talented, caring and very lonely.  But people didn't bother to find that out.  Oh, I had friends, but no one asked me to the prom, no one asked me to homecoming.  I sat home on Friday nights when my classmates went out.

But God saw my pain and my loneliness.  He used it to shape me into who He created me to be.  And in His way and in His timing He brought a wonderful man into my life.  But it didn't happen until I was 26; we dated for two years and I was 28 when we married.

Now we have been married for almost 28 years. He is the most wonderful, most caring man in the world and he loves me beyond all reason.  I'm still not pretty, and I'm still overweight but he tells me I am beautiful, and he believes it.  To him, I am.

Most of my classmates have been in and out of unsuccessful relationships, marriages, divorces..... I've had to deal with none of that.  I wake up each morning with the love of my life beside me, knowing that he is faithful to me and that he loves me unconditionally.  So I say all those lonely nights, all those hurtful times, all the times I felt left out and lonely, all the times when I cried myself to sleep at night.... all those times were worth it a million times over. 

Please know that God feels your pain and your loneliness; Jesus felt lonely too.  He knows how it hurts.  But He will take all your pain and use it for your good.  I know that's hard to hear right now and probably isn't the answer you wanted.  Just know that He has created someone especially for you, and in His way and in His time He will bring the two of you together.  And it will be so worth it!  Please don't settle for anything less.  Don't allow the enemy to rob you of what God has planned for you.

maybe,if he likes your friend then you will get over hima dn won't like him anymore.

cause i liked guy once and i he liked someone else and like after a few days i was over him,said i'll just find someone else.you should do the same thing.

idk what to do

but,maybe u just should try to stay away from guy for a while and just forget about him

I say go with what you know is right.

If you know going down the same road isn't

worth it, try really hard to stay away from him

and hopefully your feelings for him will go away.

You have AMAZING eyes by the way.

¢¾Bree

^wow

^{you have very large}

^blue

^eyes...

^{you should name it}

^{"The Silly Entry"}

If you had my life, you would get on you knees and thank God for your life. If your only problem is that you are lonely and want a bf, try talking to parents, and  friends. Try volunteering your time and helping others, and one day you meet someone who really care for you.

When will stop paying for my sins?

Dont worrie about it...the right one will come at you and you wont expect it!

Anyway Valentines day is soooo overrated!

<33Sarah

do have friends guys?well,ned to start and making friends with guys that are

get out there,and make them notice u.

i barly habve any friends as girl and i'm a girl,i have lots,lots and lots of friends as boys.billons.and they mosly all love me.my friend billy,richard,andrew,ben and my bf brandon loves me.

i hted my bf in 6 grade then we became friends ion 7 grade.

then we were bf/gf in 8 grade,this year

awwww,sweet.

i want a bf to because it will change my life and i do have a bf,BRandon my bf,he changed my life and in love alot.

believe me i know what it is like to feel so lonely and unloved. and i know just how hard it is. i am a big person. and for my whole life i wondered why people didnt take the time to know me for who i really am. i had on and off boyfriends when i was younger like 12-15 that didnt give 2 sh*ts about me. they wouldnt walk with me in public or anything. it hurt alot. and then when i was fifteen i got this boyfriend who i moved in with, i thought it was the best thing in my life, i thought he was forever. when i turned 17 he dumped me because i gained some weight again. it was the most terrible thing in the world to feel. and i was crushed.  but now i am 18 and i have had so many guys stomp on me anduse me and abuse me that i really do wish that i had waited for someone special to love me. not the first one that showed a sign of it.

the point of me telling you this is that i wuld give anything to change my mistakes with guys. and i promise you one day there will be a guy who will love you completely and make you happy. and when that happens there will be no lonliness. just hold on and wait for him to find you. because he will i promise. love will find you when you dont expect it. and you wont regret waiting.

in life we have to feel pain to know what love feels like.

=]

cheer up

take care

xoxoxoxoox

awww alli.
i dont know what to tell you.

but i can tell you that you shouldnt feel bad for not liking andrew anymore.
if i did that everytime i stopped liking some one, i would be a wreck. [more than i am]
its life; it happens.

you will find love alli.  you will.
trust me on that.
just dont feel bad that you stopped liking some one, its nothing bad.
it just shows that maybe it wasnt suppoosed to be.
everyone goes through it, and ill be here for you!
you know my number, text/call me anytime.

no matter how busy i am, i will talk to you.
love you alli

[[sorry i didnt read it last night.  got home late and was really tired & making a post now so you should check it out.]]

-RIAHHHHHH-

<3

Aww i love your entry
it's sooo cute

i know what u mean, having a boyfriend that loves u not just for the sake of having one haha
i love the song, i think u used it in previous entries... i want pina colada ]: hehe

ily,
Dee.

WoAh........those are cool pics...gr8 artwork.....lol!!!

well...dang....hes a senior......ummmmm...ask sum ppl if he has a gf or wat he likes nd all....try becomin his frnd firs.......u neva noe.....he might like you too!!!.....life is short...we gtta take chances...........lol....

<333

xoxoxoxo

mwaaahh

WOW You and I are just 2 peas in a pod!

I have the same problem! With a guy named Andrew! Who is a senior!

Except I am a Freshman! And he has a girlfriend!

aw you're welome ha:)
if you need any more advice, just come find me

ha thanks :D

so i would deff give it a chance :) and if he doesn't like you, you're a pretty girl and you're super creative (the pics are awesome) you'll find someone ha

no prob :D hope it goes well :)

if it makes you feel better, i was having super doubts about going out with this one guy a year ago...but then i did and we're still together :)

i wouldn't go into this thing if "all you want is love"...love is very unexpected and takes time :)

but age, ranking, clique, whatever shouldnt matter...and if it does matter to him, then he isn't worth it. but take a chance before you get bent out of shape :) you would be surprised.

(p.s. i dated a senior when i was a freshman. so ya ha, no worries)good luck

I luv how you set up your entry!!! But how would you kno if he will or not if you don't even give it a chance?? I rather take a chance and be rejected then go on later thinking "what if I ask him" I wonder what he would have said?? Well good luck on what ever you do!

~Thialy~

cute new picts.

:D

and remember what i said: just go for it.

take a leap of faith!

<3

you never know until you try, and trust me, something that seems completely impossible, may just happen

try going for it alli.

:D

but remember what i said a while ago: think.

love youu

Yeah, so I totally say to go for it. My best friend is a freshman dating a senior. There's nothing wrong with it, so go for it! And the best of luck to you!

~Elena Knox

i love the song

u should go for it.go for what your heart tells u.age does not matter,when u are in the HighSchool.

whether this helps or not, senior boys DO go for sophmores.. my sister was a sophmore last year, her boyfriend was a senior, now she's a junior, he's a freshman in college, and they've been together for almost 1yr&1/2..so i say go for it..it'll be hard, but follow your heart[:
xx[kelsey]xx

okay, if you really like him than go for it, if you don't than you can't claim that you don't care, and that you are loud and obnoxious, because if you truly don't care than you would do it

people who controll their passions do so because there passions are weak enough to be controlled

-william blake-

my friend is a sophmore (so am i) and she has been dating her senior boyfriend for a year now.
theres also another person i know who's a sophmore, and she is dating a senior.

you have a chance. don't worry.

ahah i love pina colada [the drink lol]
and  i like the song too...
and him being a senior doesn't mean you don't have a chance
don't lose your hopes lol

Like next time you see him, try make eye contact..etc
If he likes you too, you'll see some hints

hope everything goes well for you <333

*Dee*

pfttt thats what? 3. . . 4 years difference?

my boyfriends 6 years older than me AND lives an hour away

trust me you can make it work :]]

just gotta keep him interested

make some time with him, just you and him

if he says no, he says no. it wasnt meant to be then. and you move on. nothing to be ascared of. :]

[TheEmoUnicorn]

I've dated boys
older then me.

It's often that guys
like younger girls
and you should go for it.

Go get him.

I'm a sophmore
and the guy I'm dating
just graduated highschool
last year.

Age is never a prolem,
if you can work around it.

keep ur head up

anything is possible so i say go for it....whats the worse that can happen?

i ABSOLUTELY love it!!!!

<3333333

wow.
by far the freakin best one you have ever writen.

i love it

[makinmass]

Hey Thanks For The Comment.

ii No My Entry Was A Bit Dramatic && im Just bein Stupid. ii Was In A Panic ii Dno.. iim Sorry You Had To Read All That sh*t Lol.

MuchLove xo

You should hear the song, Teardrops on my guitar by Taylor Swift, Its kinda therepeutic listening to music, if you havent found that alredy. I have no experience so theres not much I can say. Im barely 13 for goodness sake! hope your situation improves...

it's all because of my bf billy to me

i love him i smile all the time

i smile not for him tho i do because i have a good life

Thanks!!!!

I hope you have a wonderful new year too!!!

You have a beautiful voice.

Did you sing it?

aw thats so cute. i feel the same way about a guy...

nice song by the way. =]

aww alli  
who that about?

and belive me hun, if i could come back to the county i would!!
much love

that was really pretty!

                                 *~ Drea Ann Mason ~*

If you made that yourself CONGRATS!!!

Finally someone is able to understand all those things and comprhend them into a poem